A Material World

One planet that seems to be left out of astrology is Gaia aka (Mother) Earth. I think because we live on Earth, it is a planet which isn’t discussed or really used in astrology, but it is actually very important. It is said that Taurus is ruled by Venus but I disagree & think Gaia…

Genuine Relationships

Most people today don’t have any genuine relationships (romantic & non-romantic) but have a huge amount of co-dependant ones, which results in them not knowing how to find genuine relationships. When it comes to genuine relationships, it’s all about eliminating needs. 

Stop Catfishing

“What Shareene wants Shareene gets” is a favourite phrase of mine because I know that whatever I want I will get, because it is what I expect. Whatever you expect is what you truly believe. You can’t say you expect to be rich, when your internal belief is that you will never have enough money,…

Safety v Familiarity

I had never experienced emotional safety on a regular basis until I gave it to myself. To be safe means you are protected or free from risk or danger. I didn’t really know what safety felt like, especially from a man & so I confused familiarity with safety. I knew what was a familiar feeling…

Sex & Communication

I have come to realise that a lot of women feel uncomfortable or like they are unable to talk openly & honestly to the person they’re having sex with about sex. It seems like a lot of talking takes place between the 2 individuals and yet there is no communication.

Pleasure Sources

The word pleasure means a feeling of happy satisfaction & enjoyment. This can be from an activity, object or a person, and I refer to these as sources. A romantic relationship shouldn’t be your only source of pleasure. It can be (and in my opinion most definitely should be), a source of pleasure, yes, but…

Sensual Attraction

I was sensually attracted to someone & confused about it for a long time. Every time I saw him I wanted to be wrapped in his arms. I didn’t know there were different types of attraction & I didn’t know how to express it to him. Just like everyone else, I automatically assumed I wanted…

Love & Marriage

I don’t think I ever really wanted to get married. I liked the idea of being engaged. I like the whole reception part of the wedding as it’s just a big party/celebration with good vibes, music, food & people. I like the aesthetics of a wedding as it is a day when everyone & everything…

The Day Of The Goddess

According to astrology & mythology which refers to Gods & Goddesses, Friday is the day of Venus. Today most people look forward to Friday as it marks the end of the working week & the start of the weekend. There are numerous phrases including “thank god it’s Friday” “that Friday feeling” which are typically used…

Spirituality Prison

There are no specific rules to your spirituality. One thing I’ve noticed is that it is very easy to be caught up in the spiritual club where everyone is doing the same thing: